In searching for a halakhah
that I did not find, I came across a responsum written on the day of Shiv`a Asar
Be-Tammuz, a discussion in R. Ovadia Yosefs Yabia Omer about how aninut
works on Shabbat. After reading that, I looked and found two more interesting responsa
also written on that day I suspect that a fast day is a convenient time for gedolei
Yisrael to catch up on correspondence, since ones mind isnt working as
well as usual anyway. In honor of the time period we are now in, I thought we might review
some of the Torah disseminated on the fast of the 17th of Tammuz.
R. Ovadya was asked about the possibility of a person who is an onen
davening maariv early on Shabbat afternoon (in other words, saying the maariv
for motsaei Shabbat while it was still day) and saying havdalah with a cup
of wine as well. There are several dimensions to this question, all worth reviewing.
First, an onen, one of the seven types of relatives who are obligated to involve
themselves in burying a person who has passed away (the spouse, parents, siblings, and
children of the deceased) is not allowed to perform mitsvot during the time of aninut,
the time when that person could be involved with the burial.
There was some discussion in halakhah as to whether the issue of
not performing mitsvot was an allowance, to free the onen to be fully
involved in giving the proper kavod to the deceased, or whether it was a
requirement, that refraining from any other involvements is itself an act of kavod
hamet. Le-halakhah, we take the latter view, that the onen should not
perform any mitsvotshould not pray, put on tefillin, make blessings
over food, and so on. However, the onen must not violate any halakhot; for
example, an onen who wishes to eat bread is required to wash, because there is a
prohibition to eat bread without washing. The onen would not, however, say the bracha
of al netilat yadayim, since onenim do not make brakhot.
Shabbat is a different story. Since on Shabbat the onen may not
do anything to prepare for the burial, the Taz rules (and I believe most authorities
follow this ruling) that the onen says kaddish and davens as usual
during Shabbat. An interesting element of controversy in that ruling is its assumption
that kaddish can be recited before burial. Since some see kaddish as a way
to help avoid or mitigate the deceaseds punishment for whatever sins were committed
during that persons lifetime (a notion of kaddish supported by the custom to
only recite it for 11 months, since after 11 months only true evildoers would still be
receiving punishment), some authorities thought it impossible to recite the prayer until
after burial, when the soul has gone on to its final accounting of reward and punishment.
Others point out, however, that kaddish is not specifically a
way to avoid punishment, it is a meritorious act performed on behalf of the deceased. In
fact, any meritorious act performed on behalf of the deceased has similar (if not greater)
effect on the deceaseds soul. Mourners should actually be careful to, in addition to
saying kaddish, make a concerted effort to give extra charity, learn extra amounts
of Torah, and generally improve ones Jewish commitment and performance of mitsvot.
during the time they are mourning the deceased. In that view of kaddish, it is
relevant even before burial, so that if the onen is unable by virtue of legal
impermissibility to act on the deceaseds behalf, the onen could say kaddish.
All that is only true where the onen is halakhically prohibited, not
practically, from acting on the deceaseds behalf. Practical considerations
such as waiting for a flight to take off would not allow the onen to daven,
etc.
Towards the end of Shabbat, however, the onen might return
to that status, since halakhah does allow some activity on the behalf of the
deceased. Although this is rarely relevant anymore (since cars are faster than walking in
almost all cases), halakhah allows being makhshikh al hatehum, going to the
edge of the distance one can travel outside of ones city on Shabbat, if that will
help the needs of the deceased.
Assuming that the possibility of aninut was not relevant on that
Shabbat, we might be able to construct a way for an onen to daven the maariv
of motsaei Shabbat after pelag hamincha on Shabbat afternoon. To understand
how, recall that we hold the view that an ordinary person may daven maariv anytime
after pelag hamincha. In addition, the gemara explicitly allows reciting the motsaei
Shabbat maariv on Shabbat itself, although we generally refrain from doing so for a
variety of reasons. For an onen, however, this will be the only opportunity, since
once Shabbat actually ends, that onen will be again prohibited from davening.
However, complicating the issue, maariv and havdallah are actually
requirements of the end of Shabbat, so perhaps an onen (or someone who will be an onen
at that time) is not obligated in those acts at all. R. Ovadya rules that an onen
is actually theoretically obligated in all mitsvot during the period of aninut,
although the rules of being an onen prevent the person from fulfilling those
obligations. If there is a way, therefore, to fulfill the obligation in havdallah
and maariv before aninut returns, he allows doing so, both for maariv
and for making havdallah with a cup of wine.
We will, be-ezrat Hashem, continue our review of responsa written
on the day of 17 Tammuz next week.